Friday, November 27, 2009

Something that means a lot to me

Let me start at the beginning (a very good place to start). My brother got married in December last year (2008) and before the wedding I had my hair cut and coloured (by my wonderful friend Fabienne).
Then, just before Christmas I heard of a mom who I chat on a forum with whose little boy of (then) 3 1/2 was diagnosed with cancer - this was on 24 December 2008. I can only imagine what this family had to go through with all of this and with Wouter being so young, it reminded me so of my two boys and made me appreciate their health so much more.
When it came to New Year's resolutions a week later I decided that I will not be making personal resolutions as such (does one ever stick to them for longer than 24 hours anyway), but rather decided to make a contribution to society as such, focusing on cancer patients (especially children). I made the decision to firstly become a bone-marrow donor, and secondly to grow my hair for a year to donate to cancer patients for wigs. Both of these required absolutely no effort from my side and would have the ability to help someone who needs it somewhere down the line.
The bone marrow donation was quite easy and actually painless - all it involved was a phone-call to the Sunflower Foundation and a sample of blood drawn. If they ever need my marrow (or whatever) they will call me.

The hair-growing is going well and my hair is now the longest it has ever been - it is getting a bit much (especially in summer now), but (I think) it will all be worth it and on 6 March 2010 I will be chopping it all off (they need at least 22cm) at the annual CANSA Shavathon. I will not be shaving it all off, but will be cutting it short.

Now back to my inspiration, Wouter. Please read his story that his wonderful parents have been writing about on a (almost) daily basis - please go look at Krokkenoster - Wouter's Story . The good news is that Wouter is doing really well and has responded brilliantly to treatment. The cancer has basically disappeared, but he is still getting chemo until about mid-March 2010.
Say a little prayer for this family tonight please!!



Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Picnic in the park - November 2009

It was a gorgeous day on Sunday (after almost a week of cold wet weather) and I decided to take the boys to the park for lunch and some running around time (Ed was working so it was just us at home). We went to Zita Park and Andrew and Michael had a ball. I could hardly get them to sit down for a second before they belted to the jungle gyms and various other things dotted around. Andrew LOVED the big slide and Michael just loved to be able to run. The most fun for them came from running and rolling down a big hill - what fun!!

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Teacher Melanie's party - November 2009

It was Andrew's class teacher's birthday last week and some of the mommies with kids in the classs got together and organised a party for Melanie. She was so suprised and the kids loved that they could have cake and sweets for breakfast (this all happened between 8am - 9am). I was just glad to be able to leave the sugar-rush for the teachers to sort out :)








Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Family gathering - 30 November 2009

So Burnard, Vanessa and the kids left for Australia on 5 November 2009 and the family all went to the farm for one last "gathering" the weekend before that. It was a lovely weekend, but quite sad to think that it will be the last time for quite a while that Ed's family will all be together again.

Burnard took the kids on a long tractor ride through the orchards, we flew kites (with very little wind), we went to the Ark (that needs a whole post on its own) to see the animals. the people and go on horse rides (the kids that is).

On Sunday we went to the Wonderboom airport for a scrumptious lunch and time for hte kids to play on what I consider to be the biggest jungle-gym in the world :).

All in all a lovely weekend and we are already missing the "other" Cross family loads!!!










Monkey's wedding - November 2009

So we had a monkey's wedding on Saturday afternoon - it is probably called different things in different parts of the world, but here in South Africa that is what it is called when it rains whilst the sun is shining. The result of this was the most beautiful rainbow. As if that could not get better a 2nd rainbow appeared above the first (look carefully at the last photo) - how magical can it get......



Monday, November 9, 2009

94.7 kiddies cycle challenge

For the second year in a row the kids took part in the 94.7 kiddies cycle challenge. I think the photos say it all :)

Michael was just VERY upset (see the last photo) to leave as he wanted to race again.